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No BS Truth About Social Media – Smoke & Mirrors, Fact or Fiction

Truth About Social Media

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Blab Episode: No BS Truth About Social Media (Smoke & Mirrors, Fact or Fiction)

1. Fact or Fiction: Do I need 100K Twitter followers to be successful?

  • 100K Twitter followers does NOT mean you have a successful business.
  • First you need to determine how having 100K Twitter followers will meet your business goals.
  • There is no inherent value in just having 100k Twitter followers – you can go out and buy that many fake followers, but they will be of no value to you.
  • Followers can be BS or the can be an actual reflection of your popularity.
  • The importance of engagement can be an illusion, for example on Facebook, the kind of person that engages is not always the kind of person that buys.
  • Engagement does not always lead to sales.
  • You can’t assume that having fans/followers or getting engagement is going to lead to sales.

2. Fact or Fiction: I can market my business for free?

  • Not a lot of sales happen on social media, unless you are using ads to drive traffic into your sales funnel.

  • You can’t trade likes, fans or followers for email subscribers.
  • You have to spend money to make ads visible to your fans to get them to become email subscribers.
  • It costs money to translate your fans to your email list and then it costs more money to stay visible to those fans on Facebook.

3. Fact or Fiction: You can’t go wrong purchasing from “6 or 7 figure” experts, can you?

  • Even if you have a 6 or 7 figure business, if you have less than a 10% profit margin, it’s very possible you will not be making any money.
  • If you are spending as much on marketing and ads as you are bringing in, that is not a sustainable business model.
  • Get all the facts when some someone says they had a 5 figure day or a 6 or 7 figure year – you can’t take these assertions at face value without knowing the mechanics behind the business – that doesn’t always equal success or profitability.
  • You need to determine if what the individual is teaching is relevant to you and your business.

  • Just because something works for one person on social media does not mean that it will work for you.

  • You need to determine not only that the success is real but also that they can teach you to be equally successful.
  • You need to look at their student’s success, not just their success.

  • Anyone can be successful doing something once once. But that doesn’t mean that the success can be repeated or is teachable.
  • Can you talk to their students? Written testimonials can be faked.
  • Video testimonials are much more likely to be real.

4. Two BIGGEST reasons people fail according to Brian Carter

  1. People have bad strategies. There a tons of bad strategies out there. You need to have a good strategy to be successful.
  2. Most people don’t work hard. Don’t look for a magic bullet. There is no shame in working hard.

5. Fact or Fiction: I need to be on every social media platform

  • While you might want to claim your name (business and personal) on every platform, you don’t need to be actively using every social media platform.
  • Do one or two (possibly three) social media platforms really well rather than doing a poor job and overextending yourself on too many.
  • Figure out which platforms your customers and prospects are using and focus on those.

5. Fact or Fiction: There are benefits to buying Facebook Followers & Likes

  • There is no reason you should ever buy fake likes.
  • The Audience Insights tool on Facebook allows you to target people based on income, net worth, interests, etc. – if you buy fake followers, you mess up your ability to analyze your followers.
  • You will have bad data which will waste any money you spend on Facebook ads.

6. What happens when Shiny Object Syndrome or FOMO (Fear Of Missing Out) drives you?

  • With each new social media platform that pops up, many people feel the need to find a way to use it for their business.
  • You need to determine if the platform is a fit for your business and if your audience is using it.
  • You need to ask yourself – does this platform have mainstream adoption and if not now, will it soon?
  • It is good to choose social platforms that have mainstream adoption and an advertising platform that works. For example, Facebook can reach almost any audience and is widely adopted.
  • Also you need to determine if this platform has produced profits, sales or leads for you.

7. What is the “ceiling of trust”?

  • This is the top dollar figure for a product or service that you can sell online without the need for a personal conversation or one-on-one interaction.
  • You have to figure out what this number is for you as it is different for every person and business.
  • Social media is ideal to find, connect and build relationships with your ideal clients as well as to establish your authority on your topic.

8. Fact or Fiction: Testing is important

  • You are only able to see a piece of what people are doing, so it is impossible to exactly duplicate what they are doing to be successful.
  • Keep in mind that what works for someone else won’t necessarily work for you.
  • You have to do a lot of tests – follow the numbers.

  • The more tests you run, the faster you’ll learn.
  • You need to be smart about what you chose to test, particularly with ads as each test (every variation) costs you money.
  • You need a healthy budget to test.
  • You need to determine the responsiveness of your target to your most basic offer before going on to do more extensive testing.

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